All you really need to know about Feng Shui is that it knows all your secrets! Another thing about Feng Shui is that it does not mind exposing all of these secrets to anyone who happens to walk into your home. Your only saving grace is that very few people would know how to decipher the secrets that your home holds without a keen eye to detail. I happen to be one of those people, and I am more than happy to teach you how to do it too.
Now, the first thing you need to do is look around for anomalies within your spaces. Let me give you an example. You say you want to be in a relationship, and yet, when you look in all the relationship areas of your home, you find things like the cat’s litter box, your gun collection, your extra healthy cacti plant or a nice, spiky yucca! I’m not a rocket scientist, but none of those items seem very inviting. In fact, on a subconscious level, they may be giving away a secret that you have not yet acknowledged within yourself. Perhaps you aren’t as ready for a relationship as you think!
The solution is to go around and intentionally replace these anomalies with items that symbolize inviting images for relationships. If kinky is what you like, then remove the cacti and place your copy of “50 Shades of Grey” there instead! There are plenty of small sculpture of couples wrapped in each other’s arms. Or, you can chose a statue of the union of Shiva and Shakti. It is a symbol that expresses the sacredness of sexuality as a path to spiritual union. Get creative! Whether you are kinky or spiritually deep, there is an image and a symbol that you can place around you to conjure up the type of relationship that you desire.
Now, we’ve been picking on the relationship area, but in truth, you can do this for each and every area of your home/bagua that seems to be incongruent with the type of life you desire for yourself. In order to do this, you need to know one vital thing. Every room in your house has a money section, a family section, a life journey section, etc. So this can either be a great opportunity for you, or an overwhelming burden of learning to take responsibility for your life. Let go, and let your resistance collapse into a new possible outcome!